Better (Off)

Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find
all the barriers within yourself
that you have built against it
–

In the pedantic game of tennis “love” is a score of zero. Implying that when we’re in love the score is even, our hearts are content and all is well in life. However, how often do we keep a competitive score in our relationships with those who love us, the person next to us in yoga class, running a race … Who can find the best parking spot this holiday season?

Instead of comparing myself constantly and competing against others I challenged myself  to compare “me” in this moment, to the person I was one year ago. Am I kinder, happier, more confident and peaceful? If not, I take a deep breath to explore what has caused me to lose focus, and how I might learn moving forward.

I’ve found that by trying to keep the score zero in my life, trying being a key word … By giving generous doses of gratitude, making caring gestures to other(s) daily, witnessing the passion and abundance growing around each one of us? Is an inspiring “thing“.

Daily Love Meditation:

Keep a loving score today. Count how many times you utter something loving and positive …

CultFit Single

 


14 Comments on “Better (Off)”

  1. Did you write the first quote that’s in bold? I love those words! Great post altogether!

    • CultFit says:

      This is a short passage from one of my favorite mystics and poets – Rumi.
      I meant to change it from bold, but I forgot and needless to say I’m happy you really like it. 🙂

  2. I think it found me one more time,

  3. Keep a love count. Brilliant.

  4. binvested says:

    Keep that score at love. I appreciate and value your words, so thankyou.

  5. Maia says:

    Aaahh… Rumi… …

    When I go back to the whole day of today… the score goes back to zero. =)
    I don’t really want to count… think that’s all right, too.

  6. Yesenia says:

    The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday… Don’t know who said it, but your words were a great reminder. Thank you 🙂

  7. Reena Davis says:

    This is a fabulous post!

    • CultFit says:

      These may read as being cheeky or self serving – Its because of kind passionate readers such as yourself, that I openly share with you. 🙂
      Be well today and please take care!


Please feel free to reply and join the conversation